Tsheten Lepcha, a 20-year-old English Honours student at Tadong College, is a proud trans woman from Rongli Bazaar in the Pakyong District of Sikkim. Officially registered as a trans woman, she is becoming a significant voice for the transgender community in the region. Recently, Tsheten was awarded the ‘Beautiful Skin’ title at the Miss Trans North East pageant, which she describes as a surreal experience. “It felt like a bonus,” she says with a smile, crediting her hard work, skincare, and beauty sleep for the achievement.
For Tsheten, pageantry is not just about glamour but a platform for empowerment. “I wanted to represent Sikkim’s trans community and show that our stories matter. This platform was about amplifying voices, connecting people, and inspiring others like me,” she explains. One of her most cherished moments was bonding with fellow trans participants, saying, “Meeting my trans sisters was surreal. We connected through shared journeys, and those friendships are priceless.”
Coming out as a trans woman in a small state presented its own challenges. “Coming out to my family was tough,” she admits, highlighting her mother’s acceptance as a source of strength. “She is my rock-her love made me stronger.” Confronting societal taboos in her village required immense courage, as she learned to embrace her identity and confront prejudices.
Tsheten emphasizes the importance of legal recognition for trans individuals. “It validates our identity and opens doors,” she says. However, she believes that education within both the transgender community and society is equally essential. “An empowered trans woman can create a brighter future.” Yet, she acknowledges ongoing challenges, particularly around basic needs like accessing public toilets. “In school, standing in boys’ lines or using inappropriate facilities was overwhelming,” she reflects, noting that such experiences have shaped her resilience.
Rejecting narrow societal perceptions, Tsheten states, “People often think we’re only about dance or makeup, but we aspire to be doctors, teachers, and police officers. I hope people see our potential beyond stereotypes.” Encouragingly, she feels that Sikkim is evolving toward greater acceptance, noting that many are becoming more liberal and fair-minded.
At Tadong College, Tsheten has found a supportive environment. “Academics are going well. My friends are supportive, and my teachers respect my identity. Seeing people educate themselves to accept us is beautiful,” she shares, acknowledging that while some negative voices exist, the majority are accepting. “Sure, a few haters exist, but 90% are cool-and that’s what matters.”
Balancing her studies, pageantry, and activism is not easy, but Tsheten credits her discipline and time management skills for her success. “I stay focused and make it work.” Her aspirations are rooted in love for her family and a desire to make her mother proud. “I want to be successful and support my parents,” she states.
Tsheten credits Rainbow Hills Welfare Association as a crucial support system. “They were my backbone-helping with TG cards, sponsoring events, and standing by the community. Their support made a huge difference,” she explains. She believes that community-based organizations are vital for empowering LGBTQIA+ individuals in Sikkim, calling for more groups like Rainbow Hills to continue the momentum.
The Miss Trans North East pageant holds deep significance for Tsheten, representing a chance to amplify silenced voices and foster community unity. “For younger trans people, it shows they are seen and united,” she says. Viewing herself as a role model, she acknowledges the responsibility that comes with it. Social media plays a pivotal role in her advocacy, helping to amplify trans stories and build understanding.
Her message to the community is straightforward yet powerful: “Be yourself. You don’t need perfection. Love yourself and believe in yourself-everything will be okay. Accepting yourself is the first step; society will follow.”
Looking ahead, Tsheten calls for structural changes, advocating for the establishment of a Transgender Welfare Board in Sikkim. She stresses the necessity of inclusive toilets in schools and colleges, as well as proper sensitization of staff and students. With confidence, she plans to continue her work with Rainbow Hills, counseling others to embrace their true selves while also growing her business. “Exciting times are ahead,” she concludes.
Original Source: https://www.thesikkimchronicle.com/tsheten-lepcha-breaking-barriers-claiming-identity-and-inspiring-change/
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Publish Date: 2025-12-28 07:42:00
